Male Stimulation - Orgasm over Ejaculation
By greg. Filed in Anus, Balls, Ejaculation, Masturbation, Orgasm, Penis, Sexual Confidence, Testicles, premature ejaculation |
We have been doing a lot of research lately into ways of improving orgasms. Not just achieving orgasm, but achieving orgasms that really knock your socks off and make you realize there is a whole new sexual world waiting to be discovered. Today, we want to break down a myth about male stimulation and the male orgasm.
Typically, male orgasm comes hand in hand with ejaculation (yes, puns intended). This leads both men and women to believe that men are not multi-orgasmic creatures. It also gives us an imaginary end to our love making experiences and cuts a possibly amazing gift for a couple to a simple race. It is important to realize that just because men often ejaculate and orgasm simultaneously, it does not mean that they must ejaculate every time they orgasm.
We then require a distinction between orgasm and ejaculation. Many assume it is the same thing, at least in men. Male ejaculation is simply the relatively short act of discharging seminal fluid from the penis in a spurting, pulsating fashion. Orgasm on the other hand, is the peak of either physical and/or emotional sexual excitement and it can last from a few seconds to several minutes and can be experienced over and over again.
If men learning to control these sensations by getting his mind in sync with his body, they can also learn to control the timing and the duration of their orgasms and actually achieve orgasm without ejaculation. The benefit of this is that the penis does not become flaccid after orgasm. A flaccid penis is the result of ejaculation. A man is therefore capable of experiencing as many orgasms as he likes before he ejaculates. Even if he does ejaculate and his body is incapable of maintaining an erection or achieving another, his highly developed mind is still capable of more orgasms. This means that the end of lovemaking is no longer defined by his ejaculation, but by the consensual interest of the lovers.
For men to become multi-orgasmic, specifically through physical stimulation, it is important to understand the different areas of the genitals and how they react to stimulation. Some areas respond in an ejaculatory nature and others are more orgasmic.
The ejaculatory regions are on the penis and include along the bottom surface of the penis and the sensitive area just below the head or glans of the penis. The more orgasmic areas of the genitals are along the top surface of the penis, the circumference of the first inch or two of the shaft of the penis, the head or glans of the penis. Besides the penis itself, orgasmic responses come from gently pulling the scrotum away from the body, massaging the perineum and anal rimming or prostate stimulation.
So during solo sessions or couple lovemaking, to create a more orgasmic experience, it is obvious that you will want to pay more attention to the orgasmic regions of the genitals. You may need some practice during intercourse since intercourse is designed to excite the ejaculatory areas of the penis. However, it is possible to attain a more orgasmic response by varying your depth, angle, rhythm and body position.
The benefit of learning to be more orgasmic rather than ejaculatory is that your lovemaking sessions will now last as long as you like. Also, since ejaculation is usually followed by a refractory period where the male becomes more sedate or even exhausted, controlling its timing will remove the feeling “the end.” This means that your lovemaking can go on indefinitely and your whole life will become more sexual.
Tags: Anus, Balls, Ejaculation, Masturbation, Orgasm, Penis, premature ejaculation, Sexual Confidence, Testicles
